The last couple weeks, with so many things happening at once I have been finding ways to cope with stress. I will say it has been a process and a time of self discovery. I’ve been exploring with new methods of coping with stress and time to slow down. It’s been a me time. Some of the things I have been doing is setting everything aside when I can’t concentrate and taking walks to the beach, to the meditation gardens, lots of journaling and even arts and crafts. It allows me to slow down and to clear my mind.
Arts and crafts has never been fun but at this point in my life I discovered that I enjoy it. I am not good at it, but I got pleasure out of experimenting, making a mess, feeling the texture of glitter, paint and glue all over my fingers. One of the things with arts and crafts that have intimidated me in the past has been trying to be perfect, but I realized that what ever i create is unique, there is no right or wrong. After having so much fun I even signed up for an art class next month. I bought my own set of acrylic paints and been trying different things. Life in general is the same, we wont know whether we find joy in things if we don’t try. We might fail, but trying again can lead to success.
Some steps that can help you set your intention for self-discovery:
- Identify what you love — You are your most pure self in a state of love. Think back over your life, from the time you were a child until today: What people, things or activities have inspired deep love in you? Try something new that has intimidated you in the past.
- Discover what brings you joy — You are your most true self in a state of delight. What makes you laugh, smile or feel giddy is pure reflex and comes from a deep part of you. Think back over your life, from the time you were a child until today: What people, things or activities have inspired an enormous feeling of pleasure in you?
- Incorporate love and joy into your daily life — When you identify what inspires love and joy in you, the next natural step is experiencing those things as often as possible. Doing this will connect you to that core authentic self on a regular basis.
- Share your love and joy with others — Living in alignment with your core self means living in the outward expression of who you are. Consider now, how you can include others in the experience or benefits of what brings you love and joy. Invite friends to participate with you in that activity.
Through this practice I have discovered that I have a creative side to me that brings me joy and that I can enjoy with friends, as a way to connect or on my own. Identifying and understanding the things I like allows me me to see the beauty in things and to appreciate everything around me. It has allowed me to connect with myself.